God made the man to have a relationship of love and a communion with him. All that this one must make undertake is called to be inserted in the endless plan of the Creator.
All his life must be lived in communion with him to walk according to his instructions.
The big mistake of man on earth, it is that having wanted to drive his life by himself, establishing by his own authority, the norms of good and evil, task that however must come back to the only God who knows what is the plan which it has as any living being, by being it- himself the creator. You cannot drive yourself your life and have true happiness.
" unless the Lord builds the house, those Who build it labor in vain. Unless the Lord watches over the city, the watchman stays awake in vain.
If its not the Lord who builds a marriage, every other builders will built in vain.
They can have the best conjugal advisers of the world, construct on so much conjugal methods which can exist, but if the Lord methods is not there, it is only in vain and chase of the wind and chase of the wind. Hypothesis divorces instead of being a resolution will only be the beginning of serious difficulties for the future. Especially that, as we must know, in this conditions nothing could guaranty that the next partner would be better than the first.
Every marriage that want happiness must be construct on the rock Jesus and not on the sand.
Everyone who comes to me and hears my word and does them, I will show you what he is like: he is like a man building a house, who dug deep and laid the foundation on the rock. And when a flood arose, the stream broke against that house and could not shake it, because it had been well built. But one who hears and does not do them is like a man who built a house on the ground without a foundation. When the stream broke against it, immediately it fell, and the ruin of that house was great. ( Luke 6:47-49)
The one who construct his marriage on the rock, it is the man who constructs in Christ and his Word. It is exempt from failure when will happen the tempest, the inundation of problems or the torments of life. But the one builds on the sand, is to say that experiments humanly advice of friends and parents, the decline of its marriage will be bigger when the tempest and all that stops. Let's Remember that tempest and winds which blows natural etinhèrents in any life are and that they cannot prevent them, but only we can register it. That's why the foundation proves to be more important for a house in prediction of all these natural phenomena which will have to come into sight later.
A couple without problems does not exist on earth, and it is not however our intention in comparison with this study to pretend to produce these kinds of couple. The theories which we develop in this study will be able to be useful only as much as Jesus the rock is the Lord and the center of any life. It brings solidity and effectiveness in couples by acting as it foundation and not the coverage which would prevent problems. He said: you will have trials and tribulations in the world, but take courage; I conquered the world. To say; take courage identify yourself on me and the world and its trails and tribulations will be ineffectual even thou existing really existing.
Numerous are in search of a life without problems, but him on the contrary want to give us a life that triumph over problems. That's why his presence in a life is a guaranty and an insurance; especially in this context of couple. The one who is not of Christ cannot give true love, always having looks turned to himself.
Such person end up becoming a kind of gangrene for the couple, and could be good for any life in a community.
Selfishness lives of course in a man since its fall in the garden of Paradise and this one prevents it any commune life.
In this context, all that the man undertakes is made only in the mind of vested interest; and that's how entered even in the marriage is for him who it searches of pleasure and selfish egocentric.
Only while turning your looks towards Lord Jesus the man points out his face-to-face and takes into account him and his interests.
Without the Lord Jesus as foundations of couples, there is not a possible conjugal happiness.
Translated by Patrica Kamwamba